We must learn to let go, to give up, to make room for the
things we have prayed for and desired.
Letting go doesn't mean we don't care. Letting go doesn't mean we shut down.
Letting go means we stop trying to force outcomes and make people behave.
It means we give up resistance to the way things are, for the moment.
It means we stop trying to do the impossible--controlling that which we
cannot--and instead, focus on what is possible--which usually means taking
care of ourselves. And we do this in gentleness, kindness, and love, as much as